Ok, I know that when men phantasize about getting a blowjob they don’t imagine just a quick nibble and a lick on the head of their penis, they want to throatfuck. I also know that a satisfying blowjob does not end with a polite statement like: "Honey, please take my dick out of your mouth so I can jerk off onto a tissue." Men want to specifically deposit their jizz in various orifices and in some cases on tits and/or faces. I am going one step further here by not only asking how to make the wife/girlfriend ingest your semen but to do so with pleasure. There are different tactics and strategies you might want to consider, I’m starting with the rough stuff (Not for weak stomachs!)
1) ROUGH STUFF
At that point you certainly can’t be a 100% sure she’s actually swallowed all of it, but the longer you manage to stay in there the more saliva she’ll produce and since the fluids have nowhere to go but down she won’t have much of a choice. Seal off her mouth even when your dick starts getting soft, by pressing her face and mouth onto your stomach. A nice little trick is to ask her a question like “you have a free wish now, what do you want me to do for you?”. Of course she won’t be able to answer back with your pulsating schlong down her throat, but the thing is that we’re all conditioned to quickly swallow what’s in our mouth when someone asks us something while we’re in the middle of eating or drinking. Just as an aside I’m mentioning the most ruthless possibility to finish off this technique. You could pinch her nose shut when you withdraw your penis from her mouth and watch her gulp down your semen before she gasps for air. Just joking of course. (Actually not, it works). No seriously, just joking. (But it does work… Ah, stop it already!)
2) REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY
How often have you stifled a yawn when you heard women talking about sex as simply a small part of the whole relationship-love-respect thingie? How often did you secretly snicker at remarks like “the stronger the LOVE the better the sex”, when you thought it was exactly the other way round? How often have you wondered why women are concerned about "not being respected anymore" once they let you fuck them up the ass when you KNOW that’s where the respect is coming from? (Ok, hopefully not all of it, but be honest, that’s how the male sexuality works, right?) What I’m trying to illustrate here is that we have a serious language problem on our hands. And, yes you guessed it, it’s all about translating the nasty stuff you want and expect from your wife/girlfriend into girl-speak. Here’s something that simply won’t work (especially not on a 3rd date): “Open your fuckmouth you little cumbucket because I’m gonna squirt my hot man-juice down your throat and I expect you to thank me for it when I’m done.” See? That just doesn’t sound right to a woman’s sensitive ears. What you have to do is find images and metaphors that touch female desires. Don’t just get annoyed by what you have to endure from women, use it against them. Sugarcoat your fuck-fantasies and put a little cocktail cherry on top. We gulp down one cocktail after the other just because we love the sweet little red treats that are floating on top of all the ice cubes. Cherry -> Gulp down. Get it? If not, it’s my fault and I’ll stay away from colorful images for at least one paragraph.
So here’s the logic: If you think “penetration”
say “embracing lovers” instead. If you think “swallow”
say “closeness”. If you think “assfuck” say “exploring
the boundaries of trust”. I’m sure you’ve gotten my
point by now. The more hard-core you phantasize the softer you have to
articulate. Unless you’re one of those lucky guys blessed with a
nymphomaniac girlfriend you'll have to transform a buttfuck into a “gentle
The main argument I’m getting to now is the “waste” argument. Be clear in your statements on how uncomfortable you are just spraying your semen onto bedspreads, into condoms and paper-tissues or whatever. Tell her you find it degrading and wasteful and that making love should differ from masturbation through the “sharing” and caring aspect. Sharing love, pleasure, orgasms, secretions. All of it. She wouldn’t accept a couple of Post-It notes as a conversation, now would she? Closeness is physical by definition.
The whole point of this 2nd strategy (to get a woman to swallow with pleasure) is that she has to get something in return. I don’t mean that in the sense of you performing some reciprocal sex act, but in a metaphysical way. The gratification for swallowing has to and can only take place in her head. She has to feel like the greatest lover you’ve ever had for example or a feeling of power over you would also be a nice incentive. Just imagine her silently contemplating the thought “he won’t cheat on me, because the other girls would never swallow”. If you’re lucky she might even go further and start doubting that logic by thinking “what if… they DO swallow and he’d go as far as… just because I don’t”. See the dynamic in that subtle way of persuasion. Just be prepared, for she might challenge you by asking you to try and swallow your own cum to see how you like it. It has happened and you should have an answer up your sleeve once it comes to that.
I’m coming to the end of my little excursion into cum eating persuasion strategies but I’d like to add a little warning. There’s one thing that usually backfires when people (men) try to spice up the sex life. Don’t trade favors! Don’t go “yeah sure I’m going to eat your pussy for 30 minutes after you’ve swallowed my load”. It just doesn’t work, no matter what you trade. You don’t want her to “get it over with” just because the good part (for her) is coming up. Stay away from this kind of return-on-investment thinking. It kills the pleasure.
As for myself I can say, yes, I’ve been forced to swallow (not in a criminal way though, so put down the phone) and I hated it, I’ve been throatfucked and forced to swallow and I really got off on it on lots of other occasions. I’ve swallowed to say that I loved someone, I’ve swallowed to impress and gain respect. I’ve swallowed out of fear of losing love and I’ve swallowed for money. I’ve swallowed cum from strangers I gave head to in public restrooms (definitely not recommended), I’ve swallowed cum that tasted great and I’ve swallowed cum that consisted of 90% urine and 10% gunk. Eating cum is certainly a physical act but the (dis)pleasure always starts in the head. I’ve asked myself a thousand times why I do it and the simplest answer always pops up first. Because I can.
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